Every time we decide to use our power to influence others, particularly if we`re gleeful and hasty, we damage the relationship. We move from enjoying a healthy partnership based on trust and mutual respect to establishing a police state that requires constant monitoring.

Kerry Patterson
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If we want to have a healthy relationship with others, we must be willing to let them be themselves. When we do that, we can have a healthy relationship even with people who don’t share our values. In other words, we have to be open-minded and tolerant of different ways of thinking. Once we learn that lesson, then we’ll know that every time we decide to use our power to influence others, particularly if we`re gleeful and hasty, we damage the relationship. We move from enjoying a healthy partnership based on trust and mutual respect to establishing a police state that requires constant monitoring.

Source: Crucial Confrontations: Tools For Resolving Broken Promises, Violated Expectations, And Bad Behavior

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